As a bottom, I did missionary my first time and still prefer it to this day. Then of course the key is for him to be gentle and patient. You must log in or sign up to post here. Some people see it as taboo. Yes, anal sex can really hurt, but it doesn't need to, if you do things right.
Last night we tried it with me on top and it was a lot less painful than any other time. Couldn't find what you looking for? As Men's Health previously reported, one easy option is a position known as The Matterhorn , which involves the receiving partner kneeling and leaning on a stack of pillows or piece of furniture at a degree angle. But first, check out our video on sex positions to last longer in bed:. Both times we did the standard missionary position.
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I didn't hate it, and it was psychologically gratifying to watch my partner's mind being blown. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. Either way is percent fine, and if he keeps pressuring you when you have made it clear that it is not on the table, tell him to suck it. Even if you're normally very quiet during sex, this is a time you'll wanna speak up—especially your first time trying it out with a new partner. One of my first relationships ended because I tried to convert my boyfriend from top to bottom. If you have taken then necessary steps to clean your anus, you have nothing to worry about.
But if you have a lot of blood, or ongoing pain, give your doctor a call. Home the-urbn. There's a big difference between "I don't necessarily fantasize about getting a penis enema but I want to blow my partner's mind" and "I would rather die than do this but I guess I can suffer through it because he's been pressuring me. All you need is this step-by-step guide to having comfortable, communicative, and mutually satisfying anal sex, which we'll be updating regularly. Keep at it till you find a position the bottom is most comfortable with so he can relax to the point he wont feel pain which can be difficult for first time , then go at: Keep working your way down the shaft of the penis slowly. Here's something a little more advanced: